How I (don't) use Facebook
Dear Facebook friend,
I like you and I want to chat with you, just not on Facebook!
My Facebook account is there to reach you where you are, but I do not hang out there. Please join me at Free and Open spaces instead - via [email, Matrix, IRC or Jabber][/msg]…
Why not Facebook?
Facebook is a closed system: all activities happen at one central place.
Email, Matrix, Jabber and IRC are open protocols, exchanging between many Free systems (and some non-free ones as well).
Imagine having an overprotecting mother, who allow you only to meet your friends at one spot in town - where she can look after you.
You maybe have no secrets from your mom, but probably still appreciate the option of being alone - to have some privacy.
Facebook is that one spot in town. Open platforms are "let's go meet somewhere".
Regards, Jonas